Before I was made aware of fantasy toys, I ignored features like suction cups with my dildos. I was inexperienced and much less creative than I am today(having used my fair share of dildos, clit licking vibrators, and clitoral massagers, plus many other sex toys for women). To me, a suction cup dildo was nothing more than a dildo. Fast forward 14 years, and I now squee with joy when a dildo with a flared base or balls also has a suction cup. Suction cups usually mean a flared base and, thus, a harness-compatible toy, which opens up a world of possible uses, and therefore countless ways to harness your pleasure.
I’ve tried hundreds of dildos with suction cups. My sex toy reviewing started with the weird and unusual – with toys that feature a tongue vibrator, or unusual-themed clitoral massagers, and, with time, I developed a goal: to find the best suction cup dildo. For me, years ago, that meant getting the most expensive dildo I could – before I realized that a hefty price tag doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a good toy.
From g-spot vibrator dildos to a plain old straight dildos, I took this mission on, and it became a fun game of (hide and) seek. Suction cups appealed to me because I had the sex drive of an ovulating woman who had no partner, but wanted that interactive penetration one gets from doggy or dick riding. Over the years, I fucked my share of suction cup vibrators, dildos, clit suckers, and toys with attached suction cups. Unfortunately, most of them require a textureless surface, and in my dumb apartments, I’ve always had textured walls.
That being said, I found plenty of other surfaces to stick them to.
I face physical and structural limitations, so I’ve come up with tons of ways to adapt suction cup dildos to my advantage and to calm my ovulation-driven sex drive. I’ve gathered my five favorite ways to use them here for you. Let’s start with the most common way to use them: in the shower.
1. Suction cup dildos and the shower
Shower sex is complicated, but using a suction cup dildo makes it easier to enjoy penetration—no need to try to shuffle bodies around or worry about slipping on the spilled soap.
I’ve found that using the side of the tub for an easy straddle position allows me to go up on lube and ride without any issues. Plus, you don’t have to worry about a mess, and I’m able to squirt as much as I want with a clit vibrator.
If you have a movable shower head, that’s an excellent tool to include with your favorite dildo. Let the steady stream of water power against your body or clit and grind on the g-spot stimulator suction cup dildo. Go crazy with your imagination – the shower is quite possibly the most forgiving surface to get messy on.
2. Back That Ass Up
As I mentioned in the trail, I wish my body would let me back up into its way easily. I hope you’ll do the same, in my honor, what I wouldn’t give for a body that could twerk on a dildo behind me.
Find a smooth surface where the suction cup stimulator dildo can suck the wall, a piece of furniture, the shower, or even your dresser. Firmly attach the dildo to your desired surface and back that ass up.
You can use your imagination. Perhaps a dildo behind you serves as your ideal partner’s cock, and he’s fucking you from behind. While you ride, use a clit massager on your body, keep your hips up and down, back and forth. You can find pleasure in what you can’t see. Just enjoy backing up against your partner’s cock. Besides, for all you know in your aroused state, he is behind you. You can’t see otherwise.
3. Utilize the Furniture You Have
You can use a suction cup dildo on a piece of furniture by wrapping a tie around the dildo and putting it around a pillow or the seat of a chair. The tried-and-true pillow- humping can be spiced up with a clit sucker that you can press against your body as you grind. Additionally, use the arm of the couch to a suction cup dildo with balls and grind against that. You can always secure the suction cup dildo to the pillow with a silky rope.
I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention this more acrobatic way to jerk it. Get your dryer and washer running. Gather all the clothes you need to wash and place them on top of the running washer and dryer. Then, attach the dildo to the top of the washer/dryer. Sit and enjoy the rocking, the bumps, and the satisfaction you get from turning a homemade pleasuring device.
Don’t forget about the rest of your body; try nipple clamps for an added boost of stimulation to the sensitive areas.
4. Use a Suction-Cup Dildo with a Harness
Most suction-cup dildos are harness-compatible because of the flared base that’s often reminiscent of testicles—strap in with the dildo with a partner for POV doggy style sex. Or ride your partner while they lie beneath you. The possibilities with harness sex are endless. Whether the suction cup dildo is held in the hand or used in the strap-on, suction cup dildos are significantly easier to maintain than a dildo with no base. This base is easier to hold and more fun, without the extra grip that cramps your fingers, hands, and arms. For partners with carpal tunnel syndrome or any other wrist issues, holding onto a suction cup dildo could alleviate pain or even prevent it.
Use your best vibrating dildo, have your partner penetrate you with a harness on, thrusting into you, hard and fast, while you use a licking toy.
You can be the welder of the suction cup dildo as well, doing your partner from behind or having them ride you. Either way, the bonding experience you’ll have from exploring your body with your partner is priceless.
5. Fuck Yourself on the Floor
I love sticking the suction cup dildo to my floor. It can be hard on my knees, but a clit vibrator and a dildo secured to the floor is a trick that pushes me over the edge every time.
If you choose a suction cup dildo that is rather long, that can be easier on your knees. For me, bouncing on the floor is the star performance. I love that the dildo doesn’t move, and my favorite position is to lower my chest closer to the floor and twerk on the dildo.
Consider the floor to be a practice round, too. No one is necessarily watching. Bounce up and down and rub your clit against the suction cup dildo’s balls. This is the time for you to experiment.
Think outside the box. There are tons of ways to do suction cup dildos; these four are just four among many, and not all of the ways to use them involve the suction cup itself. With the suction dildo in your hand, penetrate your partner with a harness, and secure the suction cup dildo to your tub. Get creative but stay safe.