Just because you pay for the time of an escort doesn’t mean you own her. And it also doesn’t mean that she owes you anything than what was agreed upon. Boundaries are just as important in any encounter with an escort as they are on a date or within a relationship. Moreover, in certain aspects, you should pay even more attention to an escort’s boundaries than you would with those of a woman you’re dating. Here’s a quick guide on how to respect boundaries when hiring an escort.
Stick To The Kinks She’s Comfortable With
Whenever I look for escorts near me, I always search for them on directories where they can list the kinks they’re comfortable with. And if an escort doesn’t do any of the kinks I like, I choose not to book her, no matter how attractive she might seem. And you should do the same thing. Don’t just hope that once you’re with an escort, she will be more willing to please those extra naughty fantasies you like. Never try pressuring an escort into doing something she’s not comfortable with. Also, remember that some things are off the table when you’re with an escort, even though in any other situation they’re not considered out of the ordinary. Things like kissing, hickies, booty spanking, or light choking are definitely off limits for most escorts. There are escorts that might let you spank them. But you need clear and previously given consent for kinks like impact play.
Don’t Insist On A Discount
Besides respecting your escort as a person and as a sexual partner, you should also respect her as a business operator. So many guys are blacklisted by escorts these days because they insist on paying less than the agreed rate. The thing that happens most of the time is that clients will agree to an hour-long booking, they finish too quickly, and in the post-nut clarity, they realize that they don’t want to have sex anymore, and they’d rather leave.
No matter if you have sex for the full 60 minutes of the booking or you finish in five, you booked your escort for her time, not just for sex. You should pay her in full, and you should pay her upfront. And if you enjoyed yourself better than expected, don’t hesitate to tip your escort. She’ll appreciate it and will show you her gratitude next time you see each other!
Don’t Evade Any Sanitary Requirements
It might seem funny to many guys, but there are men out there with no sense of personal hygiene. The sanitary requirements of an escort are not optional. They are the backbone of a good encounter and of a healthy practice for their business as a whole. No matter if you showered before meeting your escort, don’t try excusing yourself from showing up at her location. That’s how she makes sure you’re clean. Also, it’s always a good idea to tidy up before meeting your escort. She’ll appreciate trimmed nails and a groomed penis. But the most important boundary you should never cross is the condom. Never insist on having unprotected sex.
Remember That Concent Can Be Withdrawn
As mentioned, just because you paid for the services of an escort, it doesn’t mean you own her. She is free to turn you down or ask you to stop at any time she wants. Booking an escort is not like booking any other kind of service. She is entitled to withdraw consent at any time. Usually, if anything happens and the escorts can’t carry out the service, she will reimburse you the total sum that you paid. If that ever happens, just take the money and leave. Never make a scene. Because remember, making a scene can get you in trouble. Not only can she call the cops on you, but most escorts also have a panic button and a security person who can handle belligerent clients.
These are the most sacred boundaries that should be respected when interacting with an escort. No matter if you’re interacting with New York escorts or small-town call-girls, these are the unwritten rules of the industry. But even so, it is easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment. So, keep these boundaries in mind and never cross them.